terça-feira, 12 de fevereiro de 2008
If a man wants you nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition or spirit to save you from some heartache. Never live your life for a man before you find what truly makes you happy. If a relationship ends becayuse the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't be friends. A friend wouldmt mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better" you'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant why would he treat you any different?Always have your own set of friends seperate from his. Maintaun boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you speak up. Never let a man know everything, he will use it against you later. You cannot change a mans behavior. Change comes from within. Don't ever make him feel more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone elses man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you, all men are not dogs. You shouldn't be doing all the ending...compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there's is nothing cute about baggage, deal with your issues first before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you, a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be mr.right. Make him miss you sometimes. When a man knows where you are, and you are always readily available to him he takes it for granted. Never move into his mothers house. Never co-sign for a man. Dnt fully commit to a man who doesn't guve you everything you need. Keep him in your radar. They say it takes a minute to find someone special. An housr to appreciate them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Acerca de mim
- Rita Tavares Dias
- Lisboa, Lisboa, Portugal
- "Há um tempo em que é preciso abandonar as roupas usadas, que já tem a forma do nosso corpo, e esquecer os nossos caminhos, que nos levam sempre aos mesmos lugares. É o tempo da travessia: e, se não ousarmos fazê-la, teremos ficado, para sempre, à margem de nós mesmos." Fernando Pessoa